The appreciation in value of separate property can be claimed
It’s important to understand that the appreciation in value of any separate property is added to the marital pot of assets in a divorce proceeding.
For example, the spouse that isn’t on the title can make a claim that he or she made contributions or exerted effort in some way in order to lay claim to the appreciation in value of the separate property.
For example, the non-title spouse can claim that he or she spent lots of time with architects or contractors, or spent a lot of time cleaning the separate property, and thus claim the appreciation in value of the separate property.
Whether children are involved makes a difference
It’s often easier and more straightforward for a judge to decide the split on a marital home if there are no children involved. If however there are still young children living in the marital home, then one party may have to pay the other party to live in that house with the children for continuity purposes.
For example, let’s say one spouse is the primary custodial parent and this spouse can’t afford to maintain the home by him or herself, but wants to stay in the home so the kids can continue at the same school. Then the court might order both parties to co-own and maintain the marital home until the kids finish high school.
What is the earnings capacity of each spouse?
The court will look at each party’s earning capacity and history over the past few years. If one party doesn’t have much earnings capacity while the other party does, then the judge may order the earning spouse to pay a spousal support package which may include the housing expenses for the non-earning spouse (i.e. cost of a rental, buying another property for the non-earning spouse, etc.).
Remember that child support and spousal support can play off of each other, and that child support generally ends at age 21.
Pro Tip: It’s rare to see judges award lifetime spousal support these days. Courts are much less forgiving these days when it comes to earnings capacity.
What happens if one spouse wants to buy out the other spouse’s share? How is valuation determined?
In this scenario, the fair market value is agreed upon by the parties either amicably, or via a neutral appraisal done by an independent, third party licensed property appraiser.
Any potential buyout of the other spouse’s share will of course depend on the buyer’s ability to maintain the property. If this is not possible, some agreements will specify that the property then needs to be sold, and the proceeds divided.
Remember that in a buyout, the mortgage needs to be taken care of as well, usually through a refinancing.
This is a great article on divorce and real estate, but you didn’t address the topic of co-hab agreements, which can also be turned into a pre-nup; however, it’s better to have two separate agreements. Remember that New York doesn’t recognize common law marriage.
A co-hab agreement can also cover the distribution of property, and can cover who lives in the residence after a break-up.
And of course, some married couples might even want a post-nup agreement, to provide some sort of safety net.
Oh a few other tips that I forgot to mention:
– Negotiate with your spouse for a cut-off date.
– If you didn’t serve your spouse in 120 days, then you need to re-file.
– Every divorce agreement has a reconciliation clause, or should.
– Automatic stays that happen upon a divorce filing doesn’t apply to wills.
– Any transfer of property from spouse to spouse is non-taxable.
– You are legally separated when you enter into a settlement agreement.
– The separation agreement is a separately enforceable document.