The traffic
This is a common, and often valid, complaint about living in Miami. The traffic in this city can get pretty bad, especially around rush hour and on the I-95. This problem is compounded by the fact that Miami is known for aggressive and bad drivers who often get into accidents. Here in Miami, traffic signs, lights and rules are more of a suggestion vs a requirement for many drivers. It’s often joked that actually using your turn signal is a sign of weakness. Furthermore, due to a lack of public transportation, bike lanes and the spread out nature of the city, most people tend to drive or take rideshares, which only adds to the number of cars on the road.
Yet, however bad the traffic can be in Miami, the traffic is worse in New York and the West Coast. In fact, the traffic in Miami cannot compare to the horrific traffic jams you see in Los Angeles or trying to get out of NYC on a summer Friday afternoon.
The people
A common complaint by elitist New Yorkers is that the quality of the people in Florida can’t compare to that of New Yorkers. They complain that people in Miami are inconsiderate, don’t have manners, are rude, uncouth, vain, flashy, transactional or uninteresting.
Can you imagine some bitter New Yorker airing these grievances all at once? Is this someone you’d prefer to hang out with? Also, have you spent much time recently on the dirty streets or subways of NYC?
While people will generally smile and acknowledge each other here in sunny Miami, which the Financial Times recently called the most important city in America, in New York you’re just hoping to not get shoved onto an oncoming subway train.
While it’s true that there may be some cultural differences to get used to in Miami-Dade County, we’d argue that you can find equally rude or even more annoying people anywhere, including in NYC.
We have a mini opera and ballet house and some museums. The culture comes in different packaging in Miami.. Sure it’s no Broadway but there are local theaters and art houses.
Very well done and thanks for sharing Chris! I’ll share with wifey who is looking to buy a condo – in this case Miami would be my base.
I actually grew up and went to college in Miami, then researched the shit out of it when evaluating my post nyc move. I couldn’t wait to leave after college – the people was the main problem I had. Generally speaking, I still find the typical Miami person to be shallow and uninteresting, compared to people in NYC and other cities I’ve lived in (Berlin, Madrid, Amsterdam, Portland). I’m so glad that’s changing with people like you and Shray moving here. With better people, Miami is probably best place for me to live in the US. I’m here for the bilingual nature of the city and how it kind of feels like living abroad. Weather and taxes help a lot too. 🙂
I think you make a key point. It’s all about relatability, or the perception of being able to find relatability and community. I’ve heard numerous friends who have said that they don’t think they could have lived in Miami prior to the pandemic migration, due to not being able to find enough like-minded people (or the perception of not being able to as I’m sure there were always plenty of interesting people here).
It actually makes a lot of sense as due to the tremendous migration from just NY and CA, FL and Miami in particular is no longer as affordable as it used to be. So if people were purely focused on cost, then why aren’t they flocking to rural Arkansas or Alaska (not to pick on any particular state)? It’s because people are social animals after all, despite everything that remote work has enabled, and they still want to be close to like-minded people and have a sense of community.
We strongly disagree with the point about “the people” in Miami. This is something we often hear from individuals who have recently relocated from other cities (most often NY and SF) and haven’t yet found their community of friends to who they can relate. Once they have one or more friend groups, this sentiment seems to disappear completely, suggesting it’s just a matter of friend-making and community building. Having relocated from New York in 2020, we feel we have many, many more high-quality friendships than we ever did in New York, despite having gone to college there and worked for 5-10 years. In our experience, the majority of people we came across in NY were shallow social and/or corporate climbers, who often try to gauge if you are interesting enough to talk to in the first 5 minutes upon meeting. We also found it was hard to make plans to hang out, and people often flaked or canceled at the last minute. Most New Yorkers also didn’t have the space to host at home, so plans always had to be made with a venue in mind. In Miami, our friendships feel genuine and based primarily on us liking one another, and it’s easy to enjoy a variety of activities such as beach/poolside hangs, BBQs, kayaking, fitness classes, exploring new neighborhoods, etc. We wouldn’t ever trade our Miami friends for our old NY friends!
We just moved to Miami from New York and we could not love it more. Everything about this article is true. Including the fact that we used to go to the theater or opera/ballet a few times a year in New York and we can’t do that here. So we are planning to fly to New York a few times a year and get all the benefits of New York while getting all the benefits of Miami the other 95% of the time. The lower taxes here will pay for those trips 10 times over.